May 28, 2026
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Sofía is Learning She Can

Sofía working with the Oasis Education Coordinator to begin their school lesson.

When Ruth, the Education Coordinator for Kids Alive Guatemala, meets a girl who has recently arrived at Oasis, she often asks a simple question within the first few days: Do you want to go to school?

Every girl had always said yes—until Sofía.*

Sofía was 14 years old when she arrived at Oasis, Kids Alive Guatemala’s residential care campus for girls who have experienced sexual abuse and trauma. When Ruth asked if she wanted to go to school, Sofía answered clearly: “No.” She meant it. School was not something she had known, experienced, or even understood as part of daily life.

Before Oasis, Sofía’s world had been shaped by fields and farming. The words she knew were connected to agricultural work—tools, planting, harvesting, and the rhythms of labor. She had never held a pencil. She did not know what a teacher was. She did not know schools existed near her. When the team gave her a backpack, she looked at it with confusion and asked what it was even for. A notebook was unfamiliar. A classroom was unfamiliar. "Learning," in the way many children experience it from an early age, was a completely new concept.

So when Sofía said she did not want to go to school, the Kids Alive Guatemala team understood that her answer was not defiance. It was fear of something she did not yet understand.

At Oasis, healing is not rushed. Girls receive safe housing, counseling, spiritual care, education support, and consistent relationships with adults who understand that each child’s story is unique. For some girls, restoration begins with therapy. For others, it begins with learning to trust a caregiver, sleep peacefully, participate in devotions, or believe they are safe.

For Sofía, one important part of restoration began with a pencil.

Ruth wrote a report to the court recommending that Sofía attend preschool as an observer. There would be no grades, no formal enrollment, and no pressure to perform. The goal was not to force her into a system she did not understand or expect her to catch up overnight. The goal was to give Sofía enough time, safety, and support to discover what school was—and to decide, on her own terms, whether learning could become part of her life.

At first, even simple worksheets felt overwhelming. Sofía often answered, “I don’t know,” before trying. When she began classes, she would freeze and cry. Again and again, she said, “I’m not going to be able to do this.”

Those words—I can’t—were not unfamiliar to Ruth. She hears them often from girls who arrive at Oasis carrying fear, trauma, and the belief that they are not capable. Sitting with those words is difficult. But at Oasis, staff do not see “I can’t” as the end of the story. They see it as the place where patient love begins.

Sofía’s teacher, Saraí, did not begin by pushing curriculum. She began by building a relationship. She connected with Sofía, earned her trust, and stayed steady through the tears, frustration, and fear. When Sofía froze, Saraí did not shame her. When Sofía wanted to give up, Saraí continued encouraging her. Slowly, the classroom became less frightening. The place that once felt overwhelming began to feel familiar, safe, and even joyful.

At one point, Saraí told her,

“I can believe in you as much as I want—but if you don’t believe in yourself, you’re never going to read.”

For Sofía, something began to shift. She started asking to stay after class, not because anyone required it, but because she wanted to be there. She helped Saraí decorate the classroom. She spent more time in the space that had once intimidated her. What had first seemed foreign slowly became a place where she could belong.

The classroom became more than a place where Sofía was learning letters and sounds. It became a place where she was learning that she was capable.

Scripture reminds us,

“For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.” (Ephesians 2:10)

Sofía finished her informal academic year in 2025. Then, at the beginning of 2026, she formally enrolled in school at Oasis and began working through four learning modules. Each day, she now practices reading for 15 minutes. She still gets frustrated sometimes because learning something new after so many years without school is not easy. But now, frustration no longer has the final word.

Recently, Sofía and Saraí walked into Ruth’s office together and told her they wanted to show her something. Sofía held a small early reader book, opened it, and announced,

“I’m going to read to you.”

And then she read.

For Ruth, the moment carried the weight of everything that had come before—the first “no,” the confusion over a backpack, the tears over worksheets, the repeated “I can’t,” and the patient care of a teacher who stayed long enough for Sofía to begin believing something different.

Afterward, Ruth asked her,

“Do you remember when you didn’t want to come to school?” Sofía answered simply: “I didn’t know what a school was.”

Sofía hadn't rejected education because she lacked potential. She had never been given the chance to know what learning could be. Now, she was standing in an office with a book in her hands, reading out loud.

Today, Sofía is passing her classes and continuing to grow in confidence. Her story is still unfolding: She is still learning and moments of frustration. But she is no longer only saying, “I can’t” or “I don’t know how.” Now, she is beginning to say, “I can" and even, “Let me show you that I can read now.”

This is the power of restorative education.

It creates space for a child to be known, supported, and encouraged until confidence begins to grow. At Oasis, girls like Sofía are not rushed through healing or learning. They are patiently accompanied by teachers, caregivers, counselors, and mentors who believe their lives are filled with God-given worth and possibility.

For Sofía, a pencil became more than a school supply. A classroom became more than a place to study. A book became more than words on a page. It became proof that she could learn—and a glimpse of the future God has placed before her.

Become a Student Champion

Children like Sofía need safe classrooms, patient teachers, and steady support as they discover their ability to learn and grow. Your support helps provide education, mentoring, spiritual discipleship, and caring relationships that help children build confidence, discover their gifts, and step into the future God has prepared for them.

Your support makes that possible. Become a Student Champion help children experience the encouragement, opportunity, and hope every child deserves.

*Pseudonym used for child's safety.

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