April 2, 2026
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Shadi Is Learning He Belongs

Shadi is Learning He Belongs

Shadi* was seven years old when he first entered a classroom.

Before that, his days followed a very different rhythm. Growing up in a Dom community in southern Lebanon, Shadi spent his time wandering the streets, asking for money and doing what he could to help support his family. Education had never been part of his life. Like many children in displaced and marginalized communities, his world was shaped by survival, not structure, and there was little opportunity to imagine something different.

When the team from the New Horizons Care Center first visited his camp during the summer of 2025, they encouraged families to send their children to the Center—a place where they could receive education, care, and a chance to grow. Shadi’s parents agreed, hoping it would open a different path for their son. But for Shadi, the transition was anything but easy.

The classroom felt unfamiliar. The routines felt restrictive. He didn’t understand why he needed to be there, and he resisted it in every way he could. He skipped classes and avoided showing up. At home, the pressure to attend increased, and his father, wanting a better future for him but unsure how to guide him there, responded with force. For Shadi, school quickly became something associated with pressure rather than safety.

But at the New Horizons Care Center, change does not begin with pressure. It begins with presence.

Shadi’s teacher recognized that his resistance was not defiance—it was uncertainty, fear, and a lack of trust in something he had never experienced before. Instead of forcing him into compliance, she chose to come alongside him with patience and care. She spent time talking with him, getting to know him, and helping him feel seen in a space that once felt foreign. Her goal was not simply for him to attend, but for him to want to come—to experience the Center as a place of safety rather than a requirement.

“I began to show him care, talk with him, and help him,” she shared, “so he would not be exposed to violence from his father and would come by his own will.”

Over time, something began to shift. Shadi started to trust her. He began to open up, sharing about his life in the camp, what he enjoyed, and who he spent his time with. The classroom slowly became a place where he was known, not just instructed.

With that trust came the first signs of growth.

When Shadi first arrived, he did not know how to hold a pencil properly. Writing was unfamiliar, and letters held no meaning. But with consistent encouragement and patient guidance, he began to learn. Within a few months, he was able to write his name—something that once felt impossible. He started recognizing letters, engaging in lessons, and grasping the concepts being taught in the classroom.

What began as resistance was becoming engagement.

Yet the most meaningful transformation was not just in what Shadi was learning, but in who he was becoming.

At the Center, Shadi began to interact with other children in new ways. He played with his peers, shared food and toys, and communicated more openly. He started to experience what it meant to be part of a community—something that had been missing from his early years. The relationships around him began to shape how he saw himself and how he responded to others.

When conflicts arise with his friends, his response reflects a deeper change taking place within him. Instead of reacting in anger, Shadi chooses forgiveness. He explains it simply: Jesus did not teach him revenge, but to love his friends and forgive them.

This is the kind of transformation that restorative education makes possible.

At the New Horizons Care Center, education is not limited to academics. Each day begins with prayer and Scripture, followed by lessons in literacy, math, and life skills. For many children, it is their first experience of structure, stability, and encouragement. Teachers and staff walk alongside each child with intentional care, helping them process what they have experienced during displacement, while also equipping them for what lies ahead.

In this environment, children begin to understand something foundational: they are not defined by their circumstances.

They are valued.
They are capable.
They are loved.

Scripture speaks to this identity clearly:

See what great love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! The reason the world does not know us is that it did not know him. (1 John 3:1)

For Shadi, this truth is no longer just taught—it is taking root in his heart. Through the consistency of his teacher, the rhythms of the classroom, and the relationships forming around him, he is beginning to see himself differently—not as a child overlooked or defined by survival, but as someone with purpose, dignity, and a future.

Today, Shadi is no longer the boy who avoided the classroom. He arrives ready to learn, eager to participate, and engaged in the life of the Center. What once felt unfamiliar has become a place of belonging. What once felt forced has become something he chooses.

His story is still unfolding, but the direction has changed.

Through restorative education, Shadi is not only gaining knowledge—he is rediscovering who he is. And for children like him, that changes everything.

Become a Safe Haven Champion

Children like Shadi deserve the chance to discover their worth and step into a hopeful future. Your support helps provide education, care, and the relationships that allow children to grow in confidence and belonging. Become a Safe Haven Champion today and help create spaces where children are supported, encouraged, and equipped to thrive.

*Pseudonym used for child's safety.

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