
Estar* was twelve years old, but much of her childhood in Kenya had already been shaped by loss and instability.
After losing her father at a young age, Estar's home life became increasingly unstable. Her mother was struggling with alcohol addiction, making it difficult to provide the consistency and care her children needed. Together with her siblings, Estar spent much of her time moving throughout the village searching for food instead of attending school. The routines and joys of childhood—learning with classmates, playing with friends, and dreaming about the future—had slowly given way to the daily challenge of simply getting by.
But Estar's story was not invisible.
Community leaders noticed that she was not attending school and alerted Kids Alive Hall Mead Academy. In response, a social worker visited her home to better understand the challenges her family was facing. After completing an assessment, the team enrolled Estar and her siblings at Hall Mead Academy.
When Estar arrived at Hall Mead Academy, she found more than a classroom.
She found teachers who understood the impact trauma can have on a child's ability to learn, trust, and engage. She found therapists who helped her process difficult experiences through play, art, and emotional support. She found consistency through daily meals, a safe learning environment, spiritual mentorship, and adults who patiently reminded her that she was worthy of care and investment.
Slowly, things began to change.
The girl who once spent her days searching for food began planting coriander with classmates in agriculture lessons. She joined group projects in science, participated in creative arts activities, and discovered a love for competing in sports tournaments by playing on Hall Mead Academy's handball team. By the end of the first term, Estar was recognized as the "Most Improved Learner" in her class.
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At the same time, Kids Alive recognized that supporting Estar also meant supporting her mother.
Through parenting trainings at Karundas Hope Center, Estar's mother began learning healthy parenting practices and trauma-informed approaches that helped her better understand and respond to her children's needs. She was given tools to strengthen her relationship with her children and opportunities to begin building a more stable future for her family.
Rather than focusing only on Estar's needs, Kids Alive chose to invest in the entire family.
This is what family strengthening can look like in everyday life. Children flourish when the adults who love them are also equipped with encouragement, practical support, and opportunities to grow.
Being chosen means knowing that our worth is not determined by our circumstances or by the hardships we have experienced. It means believing that God sees us, values us, and pursues us with love, often through the caring people He places in our lives.
As Scripture reminds us:
It means being surrounded by people who believe you are worth investing in, who celebrate your growth, and who faithfully remind you that God is still writing a story filled with hope, dignity, and possibility.
Through restorative education, counseling, spiritual discipleship, nutritious meals, and family strengthening initiatives, Kids Alive helps children and caregivers build healthier relationships and brighter futures together.
Become a Student Champion today and help children and families experience the power of being known, supported, and chosen.
Why Healing a Child Means Healing a Family: Estar's story reminds us that children heal best when the people around them are supported as well. Download our free resource guide to learn how Family Systems Therapy can help children and families build stronger relationships, process trauma, and grow toward a healthier future together.
*Pseudonym used for child's safety.